fandom wars are genuinely so draining bc how are ppl angry n fighting every single day over something they supposedly love??? everything turns into competition n moral superiority like nobody ever wants to jus enjoy anything anymore
is it just me or have fandoms become noticeably and increasingly more miserable (people with superiority complexes, i'm right and you're wrong mentality over the stupidest shit, unhinged stalker and parasocial behavior, straight up mean girl energy) the past couple of years