I'm thoroughly convinced most of the issue with sexual disparity between husbands & wives (where the husbands want more sex & the women want nothing to do with it, & both complain about the other) comes down to one simple fact about women no one likes you to talk about:
Women OFTEN settle for men they're not actually attracted to for a multitude of reasons. We've been conditioned as women to not truly consider attraction, as that's "not actually important".
But, it's actually crucial. I was one of these women, believing what I was told by other women - attraction doesn't matter.
Yes, it actually does. And I'd bet my right arm & left leg these complaining women are not physically attracted to their husbands, but married him for other reasons.