This is intrasexual competition at work. She's sabotaging you to fail. If you keep "moving on" rather than improving yourself, you'll never get the type of guy you want. You'll slide down to the lowest group of men and wonder, "Where are all the good men?"
The way Stella ramped up her PR since we requested full disclosure of the disbursement of the R500 million fund intended for SAn spaza owners is even more suspicious. Stella, show us who got the money (full spreadsheet), and you will be at peace.