I have been nothing but avoidant and difficult to read and this is how you treat me?

Falling for an avoidant is one of the worst experiences of my life.

That’s not an avoidant person. That is a person who is avoiding you.

What about ازاي تكنسل العلاقة مع الavoidant من الأساس؟ لأن اذا هو مش من اهلي ولا زوجي ما بستثمر بالعلاقة، خاصةً ان اغلب اللي ينجذبون للavoidant هم الanxious فالأفضل الجهد يحطه بنفسه ويتعلم يبني نمط تعلقه صحي و آمن مو يبذل جهد عشان يكون مع avoidant

kak tapi avoidant lagi sedih terus dikasih long text malah lebih males loh

The saddest thing I ever heard from an avoidant was: "I know people care about me. I just don't know what to do with that information."

loving an avoidant is FUCKING MENTAL i tell you. cause wdym i can let them go whenever they want to, but also ready to take them back once theyre ready to COMMUNICATE??!!!!!! fuuuuucckkkk

An avoidant friend of mine said something I'll never forget: "I don't mind being appreciated. I just don't want to become dependent on it."

im js avoidant like that

Kaeya is avoidant, he uses his charisma to get his way, he is bad at communicating, he has canon sadistic tendencies (tho not extreme like lohen lol), he does what he needs to to get to his goal. While he can be emotionally shy he is also complex and can be vicious

Capek banget jembut, avoidant this, avoidant that… y’all just SUCK at communicating!!

ALGUIEN HIZO UN EDIT DE JAX Y RIBBIT CON AVOIDANT USTEDES NO SABEN LO IMPORTANTE QUE ES PARA MI ESTO

kak ngapain bgt ngertiin avoidant yg penting perasaan sesek kita tersampaikan biar bisa mikir orgnya

A friend of mine asked an avoidant why they never asked for reassurance. They said, "Because if I have to ask for it, it doesn't count."

Being in a relationship with an avoidant is absolutely soul-destroying for someone who shows up with genuine feelings and intentions. It is so painful because your nervous system isn't built for emotional distance. You show up with openness, vulnerability, and genuine love and their walls block the connection you're trying to build. The mixed signals, the inconsistency, and the emotional shutdowns leave you questioning yourself instead of the dynamic. It's not weakness. It's the basic human need for safety, attonement, and reciprocityneeds a dismissive avoidant struggles to meet.