Been disappointed so many times with trying to find a dynamic that works that I’m starting to give up and think it may never be something I get, but just gonna put it out here incase someone matches my criteria…
Non Negotiable’s:
- Over 183cm/6ft and over 90kg/200lb
- Mentally, Financially, Emotionally stable
- Has hobbies and a social life
- You workout or play sports and are active (you must be able to physically overpower me)
- Sober 90% of the time
- You are educated and can think for yourself
- You have a moral/ethical code that you live by and are honest, kind and respectful
Ideal but not necessary:
- Own your own property/dungeon
- Based in Europe
There is very little I wouldn’t do for the right person, most of my past dynamics with serving men have started with kink before properly getting to know people however and generally end because I lose respect pretty quickly when I see it’s all an act / I’m more powerful
I know my criteria probably sounds excessive to most, but I’m drawn to the extremes of life, the real stuff, real power, real submission - I’m not here to act, I’m here to live it 24/7 and serve someone worthy. I’m not a doormat that will just submit to anyone, I get off on submitting to someone that’s so amazing that I give up my own pleasure to serve them fully.
This will piss plenty of people off but maybe 1 or 2 people who see this will match my criteria and understand.
I’m fine connecting with others who don’t fit this criteria, maybe casually playing and being friends as long as we get on well - but to truly serve 24/7 I need my criteria to be met, I need to find a role model of how I can live my life better so when they punish me I know it’s for my own good and that they are also living by their code.