Pillar Five: Reasonableness — The Standard That Decides Everything
Reasonableness is the pillar everyone talks about, but it’s also the one most people misunderstand. If innocence asks who started the conflict, imminence asks whether the threat was about to happen, proportionality asks whether the force matched the threat, and avoidance asks whether safe retreat was available, reasonableness asks the question that ultimately decides the case.
Would a reasonable person have seen the situation the same way you did?
That question sounds simple, but legally it contains two ideas that work together. The first is subjective reasonableness — what you actually believed at the time. Did you genuinely believe you were facing death or great bodily harm? Self-defense law does not require perfect judgment, but it does require that the fear be real.
The second layer is objective reasonableness. This is where the jury comes in. The question becomes whether a reasonable person standing in the same position, seeing what you saw and experiencing the same unfolding moment, would have shared that belief. The law protects genuine human reactions under stress, but it does not allow deadly force based on fear society would consider unreasonable.
There’s an important point here that trial lawyer Don West has explained well. People sometimes believe they must do everything perfectly during a use-of-force event. That’s not the standard. The law does not require perfect judgment in a moment of fear. It requires reasonable judgment. The question is not whether every action was perfect, but whether the actions were reasonable given what was happening in that moment.
Minnesota law reflects that balance directly. Under Minn. Stat. §609.065, deadly force may only be used when necessary to prevent death, great bodily harm, or the commission of a violent felony in one’s abode. Courts interpret that necessity through the lens of reasonable belief. A person must actually believe deadly force was required, and that belief must also be reasonable under the circumstances. Minnesota’s general force statute, Minn. Stat. §609.06, works the same way for ordinary force.
Jurors hear this most clearly through CRIMJIG 7.05, Minnesota’s self-defense instruction. It tells jurors the defendant must have acted with an honest belief that force was necessary to prevent death or great bodily harm, and that the belief must have been reasonable when viewed under the circumstances at the time.
Minnesota appellate courts reinforce this repeatedly. In State v. Baker and State v. Johnson, the courts explain that jurors must evaluate events from the defendant’s perspective at the time the force was used, not from the calm hindsight of a courtroom months later.
This is why reasonableness ties the other pillars together. If you were the aggressor, reasonableness disappears. If the threat was not imminent, reasonableness disappears. If the force used was wildly disproportionate, reasonableness disappears. If safe retreat was clearly available and ignored, reasonableness becomes much harder to defend.
It’s also why prosecutors attack this pillar so aggressively. They slow everything down and dissect every detail — distance, timing, body language, lighting, escape routes. Their job is to make split-second decisions look, in the calm light of a courtroom, like errors a reasonable person wouldn’t have made.
In the end, the jury is not just evaluating what happened. They are evaluating what you believed was happening, what you saw, what you perceived, what you thought was about to occur.
And that leads to the quiet question at the center of every self-defense case:
Did you act the way a reasonable person would have acted in that moment, or did your fear go beyond what the law considers reasonable?
That answer often decides everything.