As a woman I can categorically tell you that your cousin didn’t just develop any genuine feelings over night, she is just angry that the perks and benefits that comes with the “fooling” around of the man is no more…
And for guys, it’s very necessary for men to also have self awareness, once a woman doesn’t like you, it doesn’t take forever to know , you’ll burn your resources and gain a “bought” or material induced love that is if you’re lucky to hit 😔🙁
There’s this guy that likes my cousin. Bro has been chasing her for over a year now, and I’m not even exaggerating when I say the guy is serious serious.
He sends her lunch at work every day. He even paid her rent earlier this year. At some point, we all started begging her to just give him a chance because from everything we can see, the guy genuinely likes her.
But my cousin refused.
Her reason was that she’s a bit taller than him and, according to her, he doesn’t know how to dress well.
Yesterday was her birthday, and she was lowkey expecting him to shut down Lagos for her.
Omo, uncle posted engagement pictures on his status. He proposed to someone else 😭
Now my cousin has been crying since morning, saying she’s starting to develop feelings for him and that he should have tried harder.
Women, our wahala is too much. 😂