look I think it’s fine to say some books aren’t for you but there is this impulse among Male Literary Intellectuals to dismiss Austen as just a silly girl gossip book, when it is, in fact, about surviving as a woman in a world that views them as inherently silly
“I have tried reading this book maybe seven times so far, and each time I make it only 40 or so pages before I have this urge to do … anything but live inside upper middle-class concerns about who marries who among the 18th-century English gentry.”
—“Shelf Life: Ocean Vuong”