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In honor of #CostOfWeddingsWeek, we put a call-out for questions about ✨ wedding drama ✨ to feature in the latest edition of ‘Going Through It.’ This week, a letter-writer seeks advice on dealing with a friend who seems jealous of their dream wedding. “I never thought there was a competitive dynamic in our friendship,” they write. “It honestly never occurred to me that someone might look at my life and feel envious of it.”
Here, @AllisonPDavis shares her perspective on the situation, including how to deal with jealousy in friendships at large: the-cut.visitlink.me/NCtvhL
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LET'S TALK INFIDELITY.
For an upcoming issue of The Cut, we’re tackling the taboo subject of infidelity and exploring if attitudes toward it have changed.
Have you cheated on a spouse or been cheated on, or are you currently engaging in an affair? Or, have you or your partner ever had an affair in the past? Did your relationship recover? If you've never had an affair, do you find the possibility appealing? Would you or your partner look the other way or forgive the other person quickly if an affair were discovered?
If you're interested in speaking with us about your experience, fill out this form: docs.google.com/forms/d/1wiQ…
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the potency of this heated rivalry situationship to true love arc could really ruin a lot of lives in 2026.
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For a new subscriber-only newsletter, Genevieve Smith talked to me, @AllisonPDavis and Joy Shan about getting personal (essay) link.nymag.com/view/63b4a151…
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97% of @NYMagUnion members just signed a pledge to walk out of work if we don’t get a fair contract from @VoxMedia. If you love @NYMag and the work we do, sign our solidarity pledge to support us in the event of a walkout! nymagunion.org/reader-pledge
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i haven't been on here in like 1000 days, but when the muse sings, the artist cannot ignore the song.
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the fact that i just accidentally tweeted something I meant to DM is the clearest indication i am basically middle-aged now and have to accept it.
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We’re making a show, baby!
Tatiana Maslany is set to star in ‘The Nightbeast,’ a pilot for Amazon MGM Studios from Leah Rachel and Travis Jackson deadline.com/2024/06/tatiana…
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the way this will save the overeager who want to respond .00024 seconds after receiving a "wyd" message.
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Apple finally adding a “send later” option for iMessage is a remarkable W for people like me who exclusively think of messages I need to send at 3:30 AM
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I have gotten a few questions about how to donate to student journalism outlets without supporting Columbia itself. @ColumbiaSpec is an independent nonprofit with zero financial ties to the university, if you want to kick them some money. specpublishing.com/donate-1
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my fatal flaw is not resisting the urge to say "i told you to watch that" when someone says "you should watch this show" and I was the one who told them to watch it.
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A strong contract is highbrow brilliant. The New York Magazine Union is back at the bargaining table today to renegotiate our contract. Please share your support as we work to make sure our members get a fair deal.
#NewContractNewYork
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had the pleasure of a long, languid lunch and a deep dive into woo-woo with Kacey Musgraves, whose casual chat is just as much of a gut-punch as her song lyrics.
“I don’t regret living and loving as hard as I do. Whenever I’m in a relationship, I’m all fucking in. I think that hesitancy breeds hesitancy, and if you go in with something with one foot, it’s going to fail.”
Photos by Diana Louise Bartlett
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Spent some time with @BillAckman trying to understand what he’s up to: nymag.com/intelligencer/arti…
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i profiled Julianne Moore for @TheCut! lucky me thecut.com/article/julianne-…
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wow can’t wait to replace my go to question (if you could learn to be a sociopath, would you?) with this one.
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I certainly most will be suing @rachel_handler for damages when I inevitably call my ex after reading this.
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The new issue of @NYMag explores the world of ethical non-monogamy. The package includes a feature by @AllisonPDavis on one specific polycule, and offers poly-curious readers an in-depth guide to opening up their relationships. Read about the issue: bit.ly/4aVyxZ3
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Now available! THE BEST AMERICAN MAGAZINE WRITING 2023. Contributors include @jiatolentino; @itscaitlinhd; Chris Heath; @kn8; @AllisonPDavis; Courtney Desiree Morris; @namwalien; @jazzedloon; and @raffiwriter. bit.ly/3QCIRwS @ColumbiaUP @ASME1963
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so incredibly proud of @cordjefferson I can't even make a joke trying to humble him. 🥹
The people have spoken.
Announcing the winner of the #TIFFPeoplesChoiceAward: AMERICAN FICTION dir. Cord Jefferson #TIFF23
ALT A film still from American Fiction, directed by Cord Jefferson. Jeffrey Wright is seen in a white button-up shirt and black pants standing in the middle of a street. Behind him are several two-storey beach homes and one has an American flag attached to its balcony.
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