This rebuttal doesn't make much sense.
You guys are basically fighting for your right to have no manners, and it's baffling.
I don't know why anyone thinks it's acceptable to spend days in someone's house without offering some form of help, whether you're male or female.
I have a question.
If you go to a woman’s house as a guest to spend 3 days, would you cook?
If she says she would buy everything, would you do it?