This is what Karmelo Anthony was doing. This is what playing music on the subway without headphones means. This is what getting in someone’s way on the escalator or elevator means. It’s always a dare. It’s a challenge. It’s getting in someone’s face and hoping they brush up against you enough to swing. It’s a deliberate provocation, and the pattern appears over and over again.
I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve made this point, but please take this as a WARNING, and not merely an observation: Anti-social behavior—think about the guy blasting music from a speaker, talking loudly on speaker-phone, smoking inside the subway car, etc.—in public spaces is often engaged in ***_as a dare_***. The whole point is to provoke anger and annoyance in those around him, which serves two purposes, depending on the response he’s hoping for:
(1) If everyone bites their tongues, the antisocial asshole gets to tell himself he’s such a badass no one would dare speak up; or
(2) If someone confronts him, he finds his excuse to scratch a violent itch.
Understand that saying something to these people will often come with a real risk of violent confrontation.