deadass one of the funniest things on tiktok is when niggas just edit characters like they’re multiversal threats

i wish there was a more intense way to express my emotions than crying. i want to burst into flames

just bent my adhd over and creampied it deep in the ass #ChoresDone #GotAMealIn #Showered #BrushedMyTeeth

TL;DR: BPD does not make someone abusive, dangerous, manipulative, or incapable of accountability. BPD is a treatable mental health disorder often linked to trauma, abuse, neglect, genetics, and attachment issues. Judge people by their actions, not by a diagnosis. As someone diagnosed with BPD, I find posts like this deeply frustrating because they're exactly the kind of stigma that prevents people from seeking help. Borderline Personality Disorder is not a diagnosis of being abusive, manipulative, dangerous, or incapable of accountability. It's a complex mental health condition involving emotional dysregulation, unstable self-image, intense fear of abandonment, impulsivity, and difficulty managing overwhelming emotions. Many of the symptoms people with BPD struggle with are directed inward, not outward: chronic feelings of emptiness, intense shame, self-hatred, guilt, suicidal thoughts, self-harm, and a constant fear of losing the people we care about. What bothers me most is seeing someone's personal experiences with a family member or acquaintance treated as evidence for millions of people. If someone knew two people with depression who were abusive, we wouldn't conclude that all people with depression are dangerous. The same standard should apply here. BPD is not something people choose. Research suggests it develops through a combination of genetic vulnerability and environmental factors, including trauma, neglect, chronic invalidation, attachment disruption, and abuse. In my own case, I experienced severe abuse and neglect growing up, and my mother also had BPD. Many people with BPD have similar histories. The disorder is often rooted in years of pain, not a desire to hurt others. It's also important to stop confusing BPD with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. While both can involve relationship difficulties, they are not the same condition. People with BPD are often terrified of abandonment and struggle with emotional regulation. People with NPD often struggle with self-esteem regulation, grandiosity, and a need for admiration. Neither diagnosis automatically makes someone abusive. The claim that people with BPD "never take accountability" is especially ironic because many of us spend our lives drowning in guilt, blaming ourselves for everything, and believing we're fundamentally broken. And contrary to what was claimed, treatment is not hopeless. BPD is actually one of the most treatable personality disorders. Therapies like DBT have helped countless people build healthy relationships, regulate emotions, and create stable lives. If you want to criticize someone's actions, criticize their actions. But telling people to "stay away from people with BPD" isn't mental health awareness. It's discrimination. People with BPD are human beings. We are your friends, your family members, your coworkers, your partners, and your communities. We deserve to be judged by our individual actions, not reduced to the worst stereotypes associated with a diagnosis.

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

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Fatty

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addressing the drama ~ Live rn twitch.tv/deme247 🧨

ZZZ x Persona 5 👑 Caesar King as Queen (both voiced by Rina Satou)

まあこれハルクのパンツがごとくお尻で攻撃しても絶対に破けないので通電すると分子配列が変化して強固になるシロネン特性スパッツの可能性わずかにがある

SHOCKING🚨: Sperm Whale fighting a Giant Squid in its mouth!

new york elected a woke mayor and nothing has gone wrong for them since

It's a shame what's going to happen in September.

minecraft or real life?????

does killing yourself feel more like getting killed than killing

the sun

ITS A GAME ITS MEANT TO BE PLAYED. WHY ARE YOU WATCHING A PLAYTHROUGH OF IT INSTEAD OF PLAYING THE GAME

i’m stuck with this stupid ass username for two weeks i regret everything