Who dey sexualize that your big belle?😭
I hate how sexualized my body type is. When these married women i meet tell me they wish they had my build, it’s always about their husbands. It’s never “oh i wish I had this body to rock this owambe”. It’s “if i get this your body, my husband no go look outside oo” “your husband go enjoy sha”. But when it’s skinny people it’s like “this your body go good for modeling oo”.
However, because of how much compliments I get from men and women, people started to think thick women are the beauty standards in Nigeria. News flash, we are being lusted after. I will not be delusional about this fact.