I think this is accurate so long as you understand that “normies” means status quo and that “performative indecency” is exactly right: it’s essentially decent people putting on a little show. Because they find the norms to be evil. Because you two were always on the same side. 🙂
Twenty years ago, when Jill and I started writing, the main divide was left and right, and we were pretty far apart. I am somewhat surprised to find that the main divide is now normies vs. performative indecency, and we're on the same side.