Seeing as we’re officially in Spring, here’s a quick thread of cool places in Jozi you can dine outside/garden setting. Do add yours please🙏🏾❤️ 1. The Kitchen @ Lantico Just past Lanseria airport. Absolutely beautiful. Service can be better, but the menu is nice & simple. 8/10

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Infidelity is one of the most brutal causes of mental health issues in women. However, society has said it's normal to coddle immature men. It affects one's sense of selfworth, it erodes your sense of security and you develop deep trust issues. But basadi ba matepe akere? Is ok

Because we all know one or of one. The shock is the portrayal not that he exists

I dislike people who present themselves as solid and genuine, yet move through life manipulating others, and then they sell a clean image to the world while being messy and deceitful behind closed doors.

january me was so full of hope. june me is just a survivor. 😭😂

I’m horrified

Hawemah! Maternal Instinct??????!!!!!

Oh my hubby better know what time it is 😍😍😍

Oh this whacked me!! 108 sun salutations! Shuuuu

I really want to commit to my fitness, bit of locking in . I actually need to see a dietitian

Limise is insufferable

Still on #ThePolygamist I'll be on this topic for a while. Let's talk about Sarah kissing her uncle Magesh. Men who prey on minors will tell you kids "came onto them". They'll tell you they were "seduced by the loose/fast kid". "Oh I couldn't help myself". "She's been throwing herself at me". Same applies to teachers, bosses and others with power due to age or position. And we always tell them, It's the responsibility of the adult or person in power, Not to rape a minor or student or sleep with a subordinate, Even when they are the ones to initiate contact. Magesh showed how it's done By rejecting the kiss from Sarah, And reporting it to her mother, All the while understanding that Sarah was a troubled child. He refused to take advantage of her. If Sarah had kissed Jonasi, There's no guarantee he would have stopped her. #Abuseofpower #ThePolygamist

The combination of all my life’s complaints and a few strong drinks.

In #ThePolygamist Jonasi’s excessive gifting of red roses to Matipa serves as heavy visual symbolism for manipulation, surface-level affection, and a toxic "love-bombing" dynamic. The overwhelming presence of flowers in this kitchen scene operates on several distinct symbolic levels: 🎭 Love Bombing and Distraction • Overwhelming her defenses: Gomora is a classic, highly manipulative corporate tycoon. In relationships, showering a partner with massive amounts of romantic gestures like burying her in roses is a psychological tactic used to overwhelm them so they overlook red flags or sudden disappearances. • When Matipa points out that he is trying to "create a garden," it visually highlights the absurdity of his overcompensation. He brings physical objects to substitute for genuine emotional availability, transparency, and a stable foundation. 💸 Transactional Love • Materialism over substance: As an ambitious corporate climber herself, Matipa initially seeks a life of luxury and power through Jonasi. Jonasi understands his relationships transactionally; he believes his wealth gives him the right to act recklessly because he can simply buy forgiveness later. • The endless influx of roses is Jonasi's way of treating Matipa like a prize to be maintained rather than a partner to be respected, attempting to purchase her compliance and patience. 🥀 Red Flags Disguised as Romance • Artificial perfection: Just like his wife Joyce’s heavily curated public life, Jonasi uses beautiful visual aesthetics to cover up the ugly truth of his infidelity and deception. The pristine, overflowing bouquets create a sensory illusion of a perfect fairytale romance, hiding the incoming chaos. • The thorns beneath: While roses traditionally mean love and passion, a literal "garden" of cut flowers in a house consists of dying plants. It mimics the true nature of their relationship something that looks breathtaking on the outside but is fundamentally temporary, severed from its roots, and destined to wilt under the weight of his secrets. #ThePolygamist #NetflixThePolygamist

The smarter women are, the more hostility they face. In the U.S. & China, the higher women’s IQs, the less they're liked—and the more they’re undermined by coworkers. Men pay no price for being bright. It's long past time to recognize female intellect as an asset, not a threat.

Lmao 😭😭😭

My absolute favourite TikTok was Nthabiseng’s husband as his beautiful Nthabi ran the comrades. Oh to be loved like that 🥹❤️

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Also, can we talk about Kenneth Nkosi for a second? Every time I see him, he looks exactly the same. Why is this man not aging? 😭 #ThePolygamist