How can she refuse to change if no one ever taught her how? LB gave her the bee and feeding her ego, Adrien gave ultimatum but not guidance, and dont ask abt the adults. It's like teaching her to swim by giving her snorkel and expect her to master it. She's 14
Chloé has multiple chances of getting change but she refuses to do so and throws herself into being slightly insane(?) she can't accept and can't move on from being a superhero so it's like a queer person who can't accept their feelings and who they are.