The universe will softly tell you that something is not yours. People,places, careers and social circles. It will gradually turn up the volume until you hear it. Eventually, if you continue to refuse to listen, it will violently remove you.
The ability to spend your money on what genuinely satisfies you without the restless urge to broadcast your abundance to the world, is one of the clearest signs that you’ve finally broken free from the psychic residue of an upbringing shaped by lack.