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Joined May 2020
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May 19
BDSM fantasy: Thoughts created in your mind, which you have full control over, can shape anyway you choose and predict.
BDSM Reality: Play carried out by others, which you should be able to negotiate and entrust it will follow a shared fantasy but can't predict the outcome.
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May 19
So many new kinksters confuse their BDSM fantasies with the reality of BDSM.
No play session will ever match those thoughts in your mind. The best you can do is discuss, negotiate and agree with the person you're playing with and try to match each others needs and desires.
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May 8
🚩 Red flag
If you're talking to a 'Dom' and he asks you for money, gifts or tributes. You're not talking to a independent person who's motivated by an authentic love of power exchange.
If you want to give money to a desperate guy with no shoes - give it to a homeless man.
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