“Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about attention and priorities.
When you look at celebrities and influencers, it’s interesting how attention changes the way people treat you.
The moment someone gains status, money, or visibility, people respond differently.
Some admire you genuinely.
Others become obsessed.
Some even build their identity around following your life.
And honestly, I find that fascinating.
It makes me question how much of human behaviour is driven by attention, validation, and social status.
At the same time, I’ve also been reflecting on relationships and priorities.
I believe relationships are important, but I also believe there are periods in life where your mission requires intense focus.
For me, that means building, learning, improving, and creating a strong future.
So when someone says:
‘Am I a priority in your life?’
the honest answer is:
Yes—but not above my purpose, my faith, or the responsibilities I have towards my future.
That doesn’t mean I don’t value the relationship.
It just means I believe a healthy relationship should support growth, not compete with it.
And I think the challenge is learning how to communicate that without sounding cold or dismissive.