Then turn around and clown black girls raised without dads and shun black boys that make poor decisions due to no guidance. Then blame “the (yt) man” when the kids become statistics or end up lost or dead, as if they didn’t have the power to alter that trajectory
To them being a stepdad is dishonorable and a stain on the man because if you’re a stepdad you married a woman who didn’t “deserve it” and you’re taking care of someone else’s kid. Elementary school train of thought.