This one no concern me o.
Sha help me find one stupendously rich Ma Shaa Allah sister that can buy me the moon. It's what I want I want. 😀
My second thought?
Habeebty ,if you aren’t from money as in from a rich family ,the likelihood of marrying money is low .
Just as you see wipe na rich people dey see themselves
So be realistic with your expectations
No one is saying be responsible for home upkeep but the men in this generation?
They can only provide to their capacity.
A man earning 350k will only provide what that salary can provide .
You can’t kill omolomo
So if his provision is milo and milk ,you will manage it like that
If you want item 7 ,you will either be patience till when he can provide that or sort yourself individually.
Moreover ,when you pushed him too hard ,it’s either he will turn it to agidi or overstretch himself and the results of that are illness/ death.
Averagely ,as women ,we will build with our men . For many people
Provision is for men
Don’t have the mindset of my right my right
Focus on compassion,focus on earning your jannah diligently through your spouse .
There are nuances to general statements going around ,don’t use any yardstick from outside to build your home .
Each home and marriage has their dynamics.
Build your home with love ,mercy ,compassion.
Ehn what if he marry another
Why are you bothered about the future you aren’t certain about ?
Why?
Live
Live and enjoy the moment first before fighting a battle that’s yet to start .
A good marriage isn’t one where partners fixated on their rights .
Ask successful couples,they compromise,appreciate and fear Allah .
May Allah grant us union filled with Mawaddag and Rahmah ,bless us with righteous kids and grant us Jannah .