Focus on what is certain, Ākhira

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We should always remember that our time could be near and prepare for it. It would not be wise for us to focus only on worldly plans while death meets us unprepared.
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وَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ ۖ وَعَسَىٰ أَن تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُون.
How does it feel as a man to be the last unmarried person in your friendship group?
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My dear sister, loving to earn your own money is reason enough for wanting to work. Making money isn’t forbidden for you as long as it’s within the limits of the Shari’ah. But be careful of what you say to yourself, lest Allah test you with it.
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You may not enjoy that money if Allah tests you with the very things you think are your reasons for working. May Allah grant you ease.
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How does asking a prospective spouse if she can wear the niqab translate to forcing her to wear it? Or is it now a crime to ask such a question? Or maybe I'm missing something here.
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Let me remind you: if you have all those certificates and degrees but you can't recite the Qur'an properly, you haven't got your priorities right.
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I tweeted about Muslims watching Netflix, ni awon alainikanse ba fe fa jalabia mi ya 😂
What happened that made you get your first viral tweet on X?
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One of the fitan of this time is the mobile phone/camera. Allah commanded women to remain in their homes, yet from those very homes they now post themselves for the world to see. Allahu Musta'an.
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WHICH PLAYER DO YOU SEE??
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I still don't know how people find it easy to insult and curse people in almost every online interaction. Almost every interaction is fight, insult, curse, cuss, mostly unprovoked. Almost every first reaction is fighting here. I wonder how people live this way. Do they derive fun in it?
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When will responsible man rest? 🥲
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I woke up this morning and the first thing that came to my mind was Hajj. Is this a sign? 🤔
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You may be chasing what's not yours. Calm down and think, then beg Allah for direction.
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Told myself I would sleep early today. See me just closing laptop since morning 😪
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20 Naira nibo? 5 naira!
If you bought this for 20 Naira like this post, Only Ogs can relate
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If this is actually a test I would easily pass, lol. The food at home sef, I don’t even finish it unless I’ve skipped meals twice earlier.
I visited my fiancée's parents yesterday. They said "feel at home." They brought out Amala. Two wraps. Two meats. Two fish. I finished everything. Neat. Clean. Her mom asked if I wanted more. I said no... trying to appear gentle. Today I told my sister. She said I messed up. That at your in-laws' place, you're not supposed to finish all the food. Called my mom to confirm. She was w0rse. Mom said I should have left one wrap. One meat. One fish. Apparently finishing food at in-laws is a red flag. Nobody told me there's an exam in eating. 😂 Please how true is this?
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Ladies Slide Price: 9,000 Location: Kaduna Worldwide delivery 🚚🚚🚚 Please repost 🙏
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We worry too much for a life that can end any moment. Make sure you live!
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Some people really won in this life.
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If everybody is talking not even Chelshit or gbaunited fans. Awon old glory 😂
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This one no concern me o. Sha help me find one stupendously rich Ma Shaa Allah sister that can buy me the moon. It's what I want I want. 😀
My second thought? Habeebty ,if you aren’t from money as in from a rich family ,the likelihood of marrying money is low . Just as you see wipe na rich people dey see themselves So be realistic with your expectations No one is saying be responsible for home upkeep but the men in this generation? They can only provide to their capacity. A man earning 350k will only provide what that salary can provide . You can’t kill omolomo So if his provision is milo and milk ,you will manage it like that If you want item 7 ,you will either be patience till when he can provide that or sort yourself individually. Moreover ,when you pushed him too hard ,it’s either he will turn it to agidi or overstretch himself and the results of that are illness/ death. Averagely ,as women ,we will build with our men . For many people Provision is for men Don’t have the mindset of my right my right Focus on compassion,focus on earning your jannah diligently through your spouse . There are nuances to general statements going around ,don’t use any yardstick from outside to build your home . Each home and marriage has their dynamics. Build your home with love ,mercy ,compassion. Ehn what if he marry another Why are you bothered about the future you aren’t certain about ? Why? Live Live and enjoy the moment first before fighting a battle that’s yet to start . A good marriage isn’t one where partners fixated on their rights . Ask successful couples,they compromise,appreciate and fear Allah . May Allah grant us union filled with Mawaddag and Rahmah ,bless us with righteous kids and grant us Jannah .
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