Wrong. They were BOTH kidnapped and experimented on multiple times. They BOTH loved and lost Emily and William. They BOTH lost every member of their family and despite Scully telling him multiple times that nothing she went through was his fault he still blamed himself.
scullyโs treatment:
- kidnapped (MULTIPLE times)
- government experimented on her and forced pregnancy on her (MULTIPLE TIMES)
- never truly treated as an equal to mulder (example; the desk)
- forced to give up her child (and watch them die)
mulder:
- abduction (which he chose)