Substitute "work/education/volunteering" for "dating" and "colleague" for "partner" and you have in a nutshell why so many organizations find that
#ombuds programs improve engagement and equity for their organizations.
In dating, most people focus on expressing themselves. But the most attractive partners express a desire to get to know you.
It's good to be interesting. It's better to be interested.
We gravitate toward people who want to understand us. Feeling seen is core to feeling loved.