Lol no fucking way, between your husband and your boss who gives you more money or resources??? Who do you recieve more from?
Your boss signs a check once a month. That's it That's the transaction And for that, he gets your punctuality, your professionalism, your best thinking, your patience, and your performance even on your worst days.
your husband.
Who married you with MILLIONS He housed you. He pays fees, feeds you, funds your life,give you money for upkeep and treatment and makes you entitled to everything he owns legally and spiritually
Why does the man who gives you less get no excuses from you?
And why does the man who gives you everything get treated like he's lucky to have your attention and gets all the excuses?
You will drag yourself to work exhausted, stressed, and falling apart and still deliver Nobody had to beg you Nobody had to explain why it matters. You just do it you won't ask your boss why he will be in th office all day and still expect you that didn't come to work that day to still come and do the work assigned to you the previous day, you won't say he lacks common sense for expecting you to come to work by 8am and do work assigned to you when you had a rough night the previous day
But at home? Suddenly you're tired. Suddenly it's complicated Suddenly he needs to understand
Same exhaustion Same pressure Completely different response
The only variable is how much you respect both of them
And you already know which one you respect more
You don't have a marriage problem.
You have a value problem and your husband has been paying full price for a discount version of you that your boss gets for free
God forbid