As someone who also gets mildly annoyed by people constantly on orange but also understands it, I wish there was a better system for this. Unfortunately I can't really think of one. Groups could be a good use case for crowd control, but you need VRC to create them.
Another night of seeing 50 people online in VRChat and not a single person wants to join me, accept my invites, or be not on orange or red status.
Really makes you think whos messing up here, is it me?
I feel like im the only constant, so feels like my fault nobody wants me.