There’s no such thing as a therapist that tells women that they need to do better for a man.
They not going to piss off their primary customer base.
Do "sex and relationship therapists" ever say something a la...
*"You, be more romantic, plan some dates, and get in shape. You: work on fucking your own husband more, nag less. Maybe drink good wine together. That's it: this session is over!!(?)"
I suspect not.