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I’m thrilled to announce that my new book, Become Who You Are, is now available at designingthemind.org/become-…. It’s the best thing I’ve ever written.
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Designing the Mind | Ryan A Bush retweeted
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@Designing_Mind This book changed the way I think. Truly hit home at the perfect time for me. Neuroticism gone literally in just hours. Have recommended it multiple times. Great book. I carry it with me now.
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Designing the Mind | Ryan A Bush retweeted
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@Designing_Mind this email hit home... In short, avoiding what makes you anxious leads you to restrict your activities, which makes your anxiety generalize, which then prompts more avoidance, which in turn promotes more generalized anxiety, which stirs up even more avoidance. As you can see, it becomes a vicious cycle. The key to taming your amygdala is to break this vicious cycle. You must make sure that you expose yourself to what you were fearful of in the past. By keeping your behavioral options open to anxiety-provoking experiences, you allow yourself to be flexible and resilient in changing situations. By exposing yourself to what made you anxious in the past, you can learn to recondition yourself and habituate to the situation. ​ // John B. Arden, Rewire Your Brain
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That’s your brain playing tricks on you. It misreads modern signals—like performance reviews or social media likes—and jumps to false conclusions.
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Cognitive restructuring helps you catch these distortions and see yourself clearly again. You’re not broken—just stuck in a mental loop that isn’t telling the truth. It’s time to break free.
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A comfortable life is often treated as a universally positive end. But when you achieve extreme comfort in your lifestyle, a few interesting things happen. #psychologu #philosophy #comfortzone #growth #selfimprovement #abrahammaslow #maslow
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You become reliant on comfort, to the point that even a slightly suboptimal scenario will feel extremely unpleasant. You become complacent and unable to muster the discipline to do the hard things that make life rewarding.
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You become anxious and risk-averse, preferring the warm asylum of comfort over the scary world outside of your shrinking comfort zone. When you build the habit of leaving your comfort zone, you will grow as the dangers of life appear to shrink.
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It’s okay to say: “I’m having a bad brain day. If I seem off, please know it’s not you.” #philosophy #psychology #podcast #mindform #themindformpodcast #podcast #podcastepisode #neurodiversity #authenticity
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By being open, we honor our relationships, build trust, and create space for both ourselves and others to have hard days—without fear of being left behind.
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In ancient Greek thought, virtue wasn’t just about moral purity—it was about what you bring to life. #philosophy #virtue #greek #philosopher #stoic #stoicism #arete #strength #excellence
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For those struggling to even get out of bed, small acts like going for a walk, reading, or exercising can be powerful. They remind you of what you’re good at, what makes you you.
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Virtue isn’t just about doing what’s right for others—it’s about what nurtures your own deep happiness. The answers point the way forward—toward a life where you live more fully as yourself.
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Nietzsche believed true greatness comes from fully embracing life—challenges and all—without resistance or regret. #philosophy #stoic #stoicism #nietzsche #friedrichnietzsche #amorfati #fate #loveyourfate
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Instead of wishing away struggles, he saw them as essential to growth. His philosophy, Amor Fati (“love of fate”), teaches us to cherish every experience, seeing hardships not as obstacles but as necessary steps in our journey.
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By loving our fate, we free ourselves from regret and unlock our full potential.
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It seems the older we get, the harder it becomes to push ourselves out of our comfort zones. The adult world gives us a kind of permission to settle down and relax. #philosophy #quote #quoteoftheday #abrahammaslow #psychology #hierarchyofneeds #maslow #selfmastery #growth
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But this is deeply unfortunate. Growth and development is what keeps life interesting. It is what keeps us at our best. When we manage to get our lives just the way we want them, we often strive to keep things from changing.
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But this is impossible. Change will happen whether you want it to or not. The question is, will it be growth or decay?
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