If your wife/SO doesn’t want to have sex with you, get a gym membership. Every time she rejects you, get up and go to the gym. Just say, “no worries sorry you aren’t feeling well, I’m going to the gym.” Within a couple of weeks the problem will solve itself. You probably need to work on your physique and she is way too comfortable. This fixes both problems.
I actually find the men who are like "married women just need to be their husband's personal fleshlight" quite disgusting, but unfortunately most of the women arguing with them have equally retarded views of sex