Yesterday, I sat on a panel I won't forget anytime soon. 🎙️
The BeBrave Forum, hosted by
@TranscendAfric Foundation and partners, brought together voices to talk about something simple but urgent: the role of men and boys in ending childhood sexual violence. Fitting, considering we're in the month dedicated to men's mental health — because honestly, the two conversations are deeply linked.
Here's what I shared, and what I keep coming back to:
🌱 Engagement isn't a one-time talk. It's a culture.
When we work with young males aged 15-24 at CMI, we don't treat "protect children" as a separate module from "build healthy masculinity" or "manage your mental health." They're the same conversation. A boy who learns to name his emotions, set boundaries, and respect others' boundaries is already halfway to becoming a protector, not a perpetrator or a bystander.
🌱 Silence is the real enabler.
SSP Mucunguzi Jackson said something that landed hard: "When you engage a boy, you have helped a girl." I'd add — when you engage a boy, you've also helped that boy. Many young men carry their own unresolved experiences of harm. Engaging them isn't just about prevention out there; it's about healing in here.
🌱 Ordinary people, extraordinary shift.
Real change doesn't wait for policy. It starts with a coach correcting a "boys will be boys" comment. A father modeling respect at home. A peer mentor in a
#GROW-style program creating space for honest dialogue. These are the moments harmful norms actually get challenged — not in boardrooms, but in everyday relationships.
🌱 From bystander to brave.
The
#PathToJustice isn't walked by perfect people. It's walked by people who choose to speak up even when it's uncomfortable — and we have to make that choice feel possible, not punishing, for young men.
Grateful to Trascend Africa Foundation, Brave Movement, and fellow panelists for a conversation that didn't just talk about young men, but to them and with them.
This is exactly the work CMI is committed to — holistic wellbeing for young males, because a healthy boy today is tomorrow's protector, partner, and leader.
#EndChildhoodSexualViolence #PathToJustice #MaleEngagement #CommunityMindsInitiative