I know we all said we can never fight over a man, but my friend almost did and I would've been there to cheer her.
My friend managed to find herself an American white man who was the definition of a gentleman.
Flowers for no reason... Good morning texts... The kind of soft life that makes you think you’ve finally escaped struggle love.
One day she posted their picture and tagged his handle..
That was the beginning of their problems.
At first, it was normal engagement.
Likes. Comments. Cute emoji. Nothing alarming.
Until the girls started adding him.
And the messages started coming in.
Directly to him.
At first, it was subtle disrespect disguised as “honesty.”
One girl wrote
"I don’t know how to say this nicely but she’s not really your level."
Another one
"You deserve better visually, I’m just being real with you."
Then it escalated.
Selfies started appearing in his DMs.
Not casual ones.. Intentional ones.
With captions like
"If you ever get tired of her, I’m right here."
That was when my friend saw it and her face changed.. Not anger yet.. Something colder.
Then it got worse...