As a man, it’s your responsibility to hustle hard for what you want. You need to understand that nobody is coming to save you, and nothing will happen to those that did not help you.
A side chick is a girl who is dating someone's husband. Girls who are dating your boyfriend are not side chicks! They are his girlfriend just like you. Just because you're known by his mother or siblings doesn't mean anything, that's not marriage.
My sister go out and meet people. Don't let a Boyfriend stop You from meeting a Husband. Some Men are just Keeping You for fun, while others see a wife in You.