If my husband comes online to say he doesn't trust me with our son. Our marriage is done! Some of you don't think before you type

Una dey marry sha. You should better die single than marry one of these guttersnipes.

The abduction of the Chibok girls in 2014 triggered a global movement. One school abduction was enough to unite Nigerians, attract international attention, and place enormous pressure on the government through the #BringBackOurGirls campaign. Yet, what has happened since then should trouble every Nigerian. Under President Buhari's eight years in office, Nigeria witnessed about ten school abductions. Under President Tinubu's administration, in just three years, we have already recorded over ten school abductions. Despite these repeated tragedies, there has been neither sustained national outrage nor significant international attention comparable to what followed Chibok. This raises an important question: have we become so accustomed to insecurity that what once shocked our national conscience is now treated as normal? At a time when millions of Nigerians are grappling with insecurity, poverty, and hardship, it is deeply troubling that those in power appear more focused on political calculations and preparations for the next election than on addressing the urgent challenges confronting our people. It is, therefore, no surprise that some observers have labelled us a "Now Disgraced Nation". While we do not agree with any attempt to define our great country by its present difficulties, we must acknowledge that persistent insecurity, economic hardship, and leadership failure have damaged our reputation and standing among nations. The answer is not denial, propaganda, or political distraction. The answer is leadership that is competent, compassionate, accountable, and genuinely committed to the welfare and security of the Nigerian people. The Nigerian youth must not become indifferent. We must all refuse to normalise failure. Young Nigerians - Take back your country! A New Nigeria is Possible. -PO

Pleased to inform all that Abbey Mortgage Bank has secured its full banking license from the CBN. They are to operate in Abuja, North-West, South West and South-South. I would love to commend the MD of Abbey Mortgage Bank, Mr. Mobolaji Adewunmi. It’s been a tedious 6 year journey that has finally come to fruition. We thank God for everything. ❤️

You can’t criticise Peter Obi without sounding dvmb. Peter Obi doesn't like struggling, preferring 'Food is Ready' politics - Wike. But Peter Obi rejected an assured VP ticket in PDP and chose to join a mushroom party to contest the 2023 elections alongside established parties like PDP and APC with his money. He rejected possible ADC VP ticket and joined the NDC a new party to fight Tinubu and Atiku again  𝗜 𝗷𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝗣𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗢𝗯𝗶’𝘀 2023 𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘀𝘆𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆, 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 Datti 𝗕𝗮𝗯𝗮-𝗔𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗱. But he lost his polling unit. Peter Obi for me is just another Buhari... - Sola Kuti. But Buhari was not a billionaire; Buhari was never Chairman of banks or businesses. Peter Obi runs away from fight but he has been a bone in the throat of the APC since 2022 without backing down.

Nigerians paid an estimated ₦2.23 trillion in ransom to kidnapp£rs over a 12-month period between May 2023 and April 2024. ~ National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) reveal

Fruitful day to us all 🙏

If I want s*x right now and I pick up my phone, there are soooooooo many men I can call and they will turn up. And I know this is the same for most men and women too. S*x is cheap. Easy. But you know what is hard to find now? YOUR OWN PERSON. Someone who you know will always have your back, with or without s*x. Someone who loves you for you. Someone who genuinely cares for you. This is HARD to find these days.

I remember a day I had a big f!ght with my hubby. I knew I was wrong, but as usual I was claiming tough girl😂😂 It took us 3 days and the issue was becoming serious. I started praying serious prayers o. I was like "God please touch my man's heart so he won't be angry at me again and let's reconcile" I was praying this prayer everyday but the matter was even becoming worse😂 We didn't talk for days. I kept praying. When I was supposed to humble myself and just apologize. I was praying😁😁 I'm laughing because each time I remember this scenario,I always tell myself that we have the power in our hands to make some things work. That's how on valentine's day,I just wrote him a long text apologising and I reassured him of my love and loyalty. Immediately he read the message, he reached out and was like "Babe I'm so sorry too, I took everything too far, I miss you "😂 Haaaaa!!! Almost 4 days of fight I prayed and only an apology solved it. The bottom line is this, there are so many broken homes that wouldn't have been broken if only we humble ourselves and talk things over. Ego and pride has really d£stroyed so many homes and it's so sad. There is a place for prayer. Maybe for a sickness, prayer for divine intervention or maybe a change of character, prayers for a good job or a contract and if there will be prayers for such issues, it should be a joint and agreement prayer with both couples heart involved🤲 So the answer is NO, prayers can't fix every marriage problem. Some require humility,our work,our logic and our sincerity to handle it.

ENUGU STATE POLICE COMMAND PRESS STATEMENT ENUGU POLICE REFUTE FALSE CLAIM OF HERDSMEN KILLING AT AWGU JUNCTION, WARN MISCHIEF-MAKERS AGAINST SPREADING FALSEHOODS The Enugu State Police Command is aware of a viral video circulating on social media alleging that persons

Several people reportedly k lled as Fulani terr%rists att@ck in Enugu

Anambra State Gov, @CCSoludo, reportedly claims the entire South East economy only contributed 7.9% to the GDP of #Nigeria compared to Lagos state, Niger Delta and Abuja. He adds that if these major regions & cities were to shut down, Nigeria would be affected because they contribute a major percentage to the GDP of the country but for the south east, even if it falls under a volcanic eruption tomorrow, the economy of Nigeria will not be affected. Nigerians will only see the collapse as a human disaster and move on with their lives unperturbed because the south east brings nothing but 8%. Governor Soludo should be thanked for inspiring a necessary debate. He has invited a debate & there should be one about both statistics & interpolations based on statistical claims. One problem with econometrics is the reduction of human issues to numbers only. Numbers do not always explain every human situation but let me begin with Gov Soludo's numbers. He claims that SE accounts for a mere 8% of Nigeria's GDP. I will get to the credibility of that shortly. But let's examine this claim. The SE officially accounts for about 15% of Nigeria's population. If it produces a mere 8% of the GDP - as the Governor claims - i.e. about half of its weight in population terms, that must make the region (pound for pound) the place with the least productive human beings in Nigeria. That is clearly an unsupportable claim. The numbers thrown around by the Governor are just not viable. But, let's go further. The corollary of Governor Soludo's point must be that Nigeria calibrates its response to insecurity in any part with reference to the economic or political significance of that part to the wider country. So, can we then find out which part the country has responded to effectively? May be it is North-West with a reported 29% of the population? Or SW, the economic behemoth of the country, where kids have been kidnapped & their teachers beheaded & the regime is asleep? By the way, in case no one has noticed, there are active abductions occurring routinely in 4 of the 6 states in at least the SW. The gateway city of Ilorin is significantly shutdown by the activities of terrorists. Maybe it is in the reputed breadbasket of the Middle Belt? Or perhaps it is in the regional borderlands of the NE which has been aflame for the better part of 2 decades? The Niger Delta may appear mostly stabilized but that is through pipeline security contracts to the militants, who are the cause of the insecurity there. That is not effective response; it's sovereign capitulation. There is just no evidence to support the underlying rationale or thesis of the Soludo argument. Instead, what appears evident is that the Nigerian state is historically dissolute. It din't begin today & it has not been improved until today. In a country with unviable statistics in which informal economies account for over 70% of productivity & employment, it is dangerous at best & surely misleading to formulate these kinds of arguments based on GDP numbers for the formal economies. What Governor Soludo achieves through his argument is to promote or excuse irresponsibility as a directive principle of state policy. Section 17(2)(c) of the 1999 constitution requires that "governmental actions shall be humane". The provision before that equally requires the actions of government to be measured with reference to their capacity to promote dignity of all citizens. That is not accomplished by telling any part of the country that they're expendable. It is not politics, it is not economics, it is not law, & it is not political economy. I am obviously not making an argument in support of Monday #SitAtHome & I certainly have no interest in doing that. But when people are complaining of inequity, it is not an effective or useful response to tell them they are useless & irrelevant, especially when they are in a country that has demonstrated an incapacity & unwillingness to care.

When you go home, tell them of us and say; For your tomorrow we gave up our today! Oh martyrs and Heroes of Biafra, we remember!! #BiafraHeroesDay #Ozoemena

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In the early hours of 29th May 2023, FUEL was ₦197/Liter EXCHANGE RATE was ₦460/$ Just in case you have forgotten.

Khaleed Yazeed calls Yakubu Gowon's memoir a missed opportunity for national healing. Hear him: ""Gowon kept Nigeria one. That is history. That is fact. That is not in dispute. But keeping a nation together is not the same as healing it. A surgeon can save a patient’s life but leave them with chronic pain, permanent disability, and unaddressed trauma. Gowon saved Nigeria’s life. He did not heal its wounds. And sixty years later, those wounds are still infected. The task of healing remains unfinished. It will not be finished by another memoir, another speech, another anniversary celebration. It will only be finished when a Nigerian leader, whether Gowon or another has the courage to stand before the nation and say, “I am sorry. We were wrong. Forgive us.” Gowon had that chance. He had 881 pages. He had ninety years of life. He had decades of reflection. He chose not to take it. 881 pages. 90 years. One million dead. And still, the only sentence that could have truly healed is the one Gowon chose not to write: “Forgive me.” The blockade that starved children, no apology. The bombs that fell on markets, no apology. The mass graves that bear no names, no apology. The slogan “No victor, no vanquished”, a political convenience, not a healing balm. This is not about revenge. This is not about reopening old wounds. This is about closing them properly. A wound that is not cleaned and dressed does not heal. It festers. It infects the whole body. Nigeria’s body is infected. The South-East’s pain is everyone’s pain. The refusal to apologize is not just an insult to the Igbo. It is a poison in the bloodstream of the nation. The civil war ended in 1970. The war of the heart has never ended. And Gowon’s silence has just made that war last a little longer. Nigeria cannot move forward until we finally look backward with honest eyes. We cannot build a nation on the graves of the unapologized dead. We cannot sing “Nigeria, We Hail Thee.” while the wounds of our brothers and sisters here and there in the South-East are still bleeding. The civil war ended in 1970. The war of the heart has never ended. And Gowon’s silence has just made that war last a little longer. It is time to end it. But ending it requires honesty. And honesty requires apology."" Khaleed Yazeed READ: The Unvarnished Truth: The Weight of an 881-Page Confession chatafrik.com/blog/2026/05/2…

What will be, will definitely be! At last we are here! Massive congratulations to us. Gunners for life

Marriage no easy o, if your own Dey work. Thank God and enjoy am. No mock people wey Dey struggle with am. Love and light .

Person dey ruin and waste the productive stage of our lives Una dy say he sabi politics. 🤦🏽‍♂️💔

Omo!! On Frank Edoho’s ex wife’s latest publications on Instagram. Those bruises are wild, and if they were from Frank, I think @Lagosdsva should get involved and investigate please. Domestic violence should never be excused.