Topping Notes: In missionary position, for a boy like @TattedAsianBoi who has great hip mobility, I can lean forward to pin his knees to his shoulders, pressing stomach against the curve of his buttocks and my shoulders against his calves. He'll feel my muscles firing while I fuck him, and more than that he'll feel pinned and helpless under my physique because of how I lean forward, causing his pelvis to tilt up, raising his booty off the bed and lifting his hole into alignment to my thrusts. Better yet, like this i can support myself on one hand and wrap the other around his cock, gently cradling it and pulling it up, leaving my hand open so that I'm pressing his entire length against my torso. As I hold him like that I can feel every surge in his prostate in response to my rhythmic massage, and wrap my fingers around to give him tiny, barely visible tugs in time with my thrusts. I almost don't have to move my hand at all, just let the short oscillation of my own thrusts cause it to pull back in my hand, with my touch focused around just below the glans. I have complete control over his entire reproductive system and better yet, this position has me right in his face, eye to eye, and I require my subs to make eye contact so I can watch every nuance of how he's responding to the sensations I'm drowning him in.

Fingering Notes: Here's a favorite fingering technique that I don't see a lot of in porn. Fingers down, palm turned to the side, inserting the thumb. Although the thumb is shorter, it has the best curling mechanic and also the broadest surface to deliver pressure to the prostate (which will feel much now pleasurable than sharp poking). Also, because of it's opposing location, inserting the thumb lets me curl my fingers around to caress his genitals at the same time, or to even pull his dick back between his legs while applying pressure from the inside. @Bobbydaydreamxx is a very muscular guy with a high degree of body discipline, which often comes with a very tight sphincter, and a lot of careful, sustained prostate stimulation can be very helpful to the process of opening that up. The key to that is centering the process on using his sensations to melt his mind's strict control of that part of his body, rather than on the penetration itself. Fortunately, I VERY much enjoy fingering a pretty boy, and will keep doing it as slowly as is needed, for as long as it takes.

My Prince lives in a body of god-like stature His cock to my tongue is a taste of rapture In heaven he wraps me in a gentle embrace And kisses my lips as his length penetrates My body, which is his, with his body, which is mine Moaning breaths intermingle, sweaty fingers entwine In an emotional spell of our passion combined As his powerful thrusts meet my demanding grind His cock hardens inside me when my teeth find his throat My hunger made stronger when he gasps and emotes, Almost nothing is sweeter than his unguarded sounds Vibrating in my mouth as my hole he pounds Yet there's still that moment after ecstasy, When my body has milked his entire release, When trembling he rests in my tender embrace, And tells me he loves me as he nuzzles my face. He tells me he loves me, and nuzzles my face! For my prince I travel 3000 miles. Not just for that dick, his kisses, hugs, and smiles, But to walk beside him and hold his hand, Pull his arms around, an embrace to demand. His big brown eyes are mine to command, As they should be - for I am in love with this man.

There is some deep want that a top carries inside him, for his cock to be the subject of obsession. Boys who understand how to cater to this desire make themselves irresistable. So, boys, let me help you understand. We want your hands to wander, almost without your awareness. Your goal isn't to make it hard - at least not at first. You just miss it and want to touch it. Want to remind yourself that you have the privilege of access. Want to feel it's shape in your hand. Or press your face against it. Or lean down spontaneously to take it into your mouth. Whatever you think you can get away with at any given moment - and lean into the edges of what you are allowed. And once you've started touching it, especially once it starts to respond, you don't let go of it unless the man tells you to. And even then, ask permission for some lesser form of connection to it. You see, everyone likes to be chased, even big strong dominant men who like to chase our prey - we just want our dicks to be your quarry and our semen your desired meal. And we want you to lose yourself in your insatiable hunger for it. That hunger should motivate you to be bold, AND to be clever in your approach. Understand the specific organ you are going after. If the dick you're obsessing over is cut like mine, you'll likely want to keep lube ready to slick your palm. Understand his own natural stroke pattern so that you can both imitate it and consciously diverge from it. For myself, I like a long, slow, gentle, sensual slide with a slight tugging at first, which VERY gradually gets tighter and faster and rougher on a very nuanced curve that follows my rising state of arousal until you're pounding my dick like you see in this clip.

Topping Notes: This side position can be more difficult than others to adjust to, because the changes in angle with each thrust are at a perpendicular axis to what @TattedAsianBoi has gotten used to accommodating. My hips can go side to side, of course, but the thrusting movement changes the elevation I'm pushing from, which means that for *him* I'm pushing on the left and right sides of his rectum instead of the front and back like he's gotten used to. Being internally stretched in an unfamiliar direction like that can raise anxiety as he suddenly finds himself confronting feelings he has much less experience with - so in this position it is extra important to provide grounding contact to reassure him. Here I immediately spread my hand around the back of his neck and slide it up over his jaw, side of his face, into his hair. I very intentionally covered his ear because now my touch is entirely shifting one of his senses into a context of being covered and shielded. My fingers are spread wide to maximize surface covered, and I'm pressinh down on his head just a bit - not to overbear him (yet) but to make him feel held in place in a way that demonstrates my control over my body as well as his. To do that, I'm keeping my weight in my knees (not using my hand on his head as support) and he can feel that the pressure on him is gauged with care, which helps him feel secure enough to navigate these sensations.

Verbal: Fuck. Ohhhhh, sliding my dick into there is going to feel so good! Good boy, i can feel you how strong you are in there. That's a very strong muscle. And you let it go for me so well. Yeah. Just let my finger have its way. Good boy! That's my boy! With @Bobbydaydreamxx, filmed by @itslynnox

Dominance Notes: I get especially intense when I feel my nut rising, and in a D/s dynamic, especially with restraints, I hold responsibility to channel that in a way that is both authentic and upholds safety. In this context, that sense of "safety" is a complicated one, because I'm in the sort of scene where I want to make @TattedAsianBoi feel a very particular blend of danger and safety. A roller coaster is a good comparison for what I'm talking about. I want to just tickle the primitive fear center of his brain to activate his adrenaline spike, while also grounding him in the sense of being cared for so that he experiences just a spike and not actual panic. In the moment, i don't have to think too deeply about that because I've trained my animal self to regard any boy I'm fucking as both prey and possession. Predator-prey dynamic contains an exploitative/coercive edge, which the boys I connect with this way crave, but it also has an intimacy to it. Possessiveness similarly has a roughness to it, but also an aspect of care. A mindful balance of these two provides me with my own adrenaline spike while preserving the balance of danger and safety a submissive craves. And i train my animal self to achieve that balance naturally in the moment by practicing mindful fantasizing when I'm alone, or in the sexual flirtation stage.

Topping Notes:

Verbal: Oh yeah. Push that hole up for me. I want to feel that pussy lifting up to this dick! Yes, good boy! Ughh, oh fuck!

TOPPING NOTES: Moving a boy into a slightly different position reminds his body to accept my stronger body's control over him. Just a few inches over, I interrupted the feelings I was giving @colleginger024 to make a trivial adjustment, and then immediately started thrusting hard enough to rock his pliant body under me, mine to plunder.

Topping Notes: Every sexual act creates sensation. But more importantly, each sexual act in context with other acts builds a narrative that the sensations will add life to. What is happening here? Is he being pleasured? Is he being consumed for pleasure? Is he being exposed? Is he being tasted? What is the moment i decide to start eating him out? What is the moment he realizes what is going to happen? What is the character of the space between decision, realization, and sensation? All of these are ingredients that create the experience he is having, that i am having, that we are observing in each other as our eyes meet over his upraised hole. It's important to get the sensations right, but the narrative is what will shape how the sensations are interpreted.

Dominance is about control, and control of one's self is the core of that. The spirit motivates, the mind formulates, and the body executes.

Topping Notes: Any boy I've fucked knows I like to put a lot of emphasis on prostate stimulation, and I try to establish right away for him that this is what kind of sensation he should prepare to embrace for the foreseeable future. As I've instructed before, this means starting with my hips up and forward, thrusting downward, using his tailbone as a fulcrum to drive just the first few inches of my cock into and and past the bottom edge of his ring of sphincter muscle. Once I'm there, my next step is to connect the pressure feeling with his sex organs, capturing his cock - if it's soft that's fine, I'll cup it and squeeze it down like a chastity cage while I drive into that gland inside him that will MAKE it push back against the restraint. Once his cock is pulsing in time with my thrusts it's time to shift positions - use my legs to move his, that physical dominance adds to how I'm hijacking his sex organs - and then start really pounding him with a rocking insertion that goes deep enough to poke into his second hole - deliberately grinding against his prostate on the way in AND on the way out.

Verbal: You've seen it before. You've seen the things I do with it. You've seen the reactions of the boys who receive it as a gift... a reward for giving themselves to me. Giving themselves to my power, and u the pleasure I take and give. Do you want it? Do you want to experience what it can create inside you? Show me. Give me a preview of what you would offer to me. What you would submit to this cock. Show me your mouth. Show me your tongue reaching for me. Show me your hands opening your butt - your crack wide. Spreading your glutes wide to offer me your right little rosebud. Open that hole for me. Let me see how it can turn into a greedy pussy for me seed to fill. Go on. The comments are there for you to put yourself in. My DMs are open for you to approach me. Do you want to be fucked by this cock? Come to me. Offer yourself to me. Offer your boyfriend to me. Your husband. Your favorite pornstar. Show me who you would like to see me fuck. Show me who you would like to see me train. Who you would like to see my techniques carried forward by. Send them to me. Show them to me. Give them to me.

Verbal: Look at the head of my dick. Imagine it inside your mouth. Can you match what I'm doing with your mouth? Use your lips. Tight. Pull on me, right there. Then do that with your tongue and the roof of your mouth, while your lips pull at me further down. Oh yeah. Pull at me. Both pulling at the skin with your lips, and pulling on the entire cock with your (bobbing) head.

Bottom Notes: Receiving @itslynnox 's erection into my body is just the start. In order to make him a part of me, I must understand what is happening from both our perspectives. His cock is familiar, both in it's shape and how the fluid dynamics enforce and soften that shape in response to my own shape moving around it. And, since with anyone else I would top, I understand what I'm causing him to feel and what it does inside him. The kind of dominance we practice has a procreative element, and this is a moment where I reflect his power back at him, demonstrating how I've been inspired and empowered in this receptive role by fully taking command of his cock. The grip of my sphincter around his shaft is not just me squeezing blindly, I'm feeling the shape of its structure and how it is created by the fluid dynamics inside it. I understand the internal fluid dynamics, and I use them. Opening my hole to gently fit around him on the way down, and squeezing on the way up, pulling blood into his glans causing its edges to flair wide inside its silky sheath. I know it is more sensitive when it is so intensely engorged. I can feel that ridge, a hard ripple passing through me until his cock is barely holding on to its place inside me by that ledge that can't quite pass through my sphincter. And then I relax it, allow my hole to lightly slide up and down the first third of his length. This is where he is most sensitive, and I still alternate my pressure - squeezing only gently on the way up, and going loose on the way down, and occasionally a tight squeeze and tug just beneath the glans, motions that increase his pleasure while holding back the psychological rush of full penetration - milking that flaring of his glans to peak intensity! Then, i slide him into me in one fairly slow, smooth push, being very intentional about guiding him on a natural path that follows the curve of my rectum. He is hard enough that the difference in the curvature of his cock and the curvature of my rectum create a distinct sensation of two pressure systems in tension even as my body welcomes him into its deepest place. I can feel his shape pushing against my inner shape as his blood surges into his cock in response to my boldness. grinding my opening into the mound of his pelvis and gripping the very base of his shaft firmly, as strong as I can, letting my mate feel me claiming his penis with the same physicality with which he claims my hole. My handling of his cock is informed by my own topping experience. I know exactly what it feels like when I shift around, changing the angle of his cock inside me, or tilting to curve it against it's natural structure. I know what he's feeling when just the tip is inside me, and the hole lines up just right to slide in straight. More than that, i understand the ebb and flow of his inner power and how it is magnified when he sees the empowerment and boldness he has inspired in his mate. My focus is on him, the reactions of his cock, his body, his face, his voice, his eyes. I'm hungry for his experience, and for the connection that forms between us when I model it so closely in my own mind, making us both feel so much pleasure.

Topping Notes: He's ceded me control for a time, and his contribution shifts from physical dominance to spiritual support. What he gives me here is difficult to describe, but I'm going to try. As i take charge of riding him, @itslynnox stares up at me as if transfixed. His hand wraps around my cock, caretaking my masculine pleasure, activating my penetrative instincts as i make my body a vessel for his. The result is an impression that his sexual power is moving through me, empowering my own virility - each slide of my buttocks around his member drives him deep inside my loins causing my own cock to swell harder and harder in his relentlessly pumping hand. My hips stutter as I near my climax, and he waits patiently, stroking me through it and letting me voluntarily unravel myself upon him. Even lying flat on his back under me, he showers me with encouragement, praise, adoration, and wonder, letting me see in his eyes how i affect him, how sacred this is for him. This is the secret, undefinable quality that can turn sex into magic. And that is what makes this orgasm one of the most intense I've experienced in my life.

Topping Notes: There is absolutely nothing hotter than a big strong aggressive man who isn't afraid to get vulnerable. I'm talking about @itslynnox looking up at me with those incredible wide, wrecked big brown eyes, letting out incoherent half completed whispers mixed with sobs, the occasional whine, hands desperately clutching me close, all while absolutely hammering me with a gigantic cock until his rut reaches completion. There is no comparison. Tops, learn to open up emotionally, let yourself fall apart in the act. A god is at his most powerful when he makes himself mortal. And there is no more special feeling than being entrusted with that fragility.

Topping Notes: By the time we move on from foreplay, I've developed an agenda for the array of internal experiences i want to guide @_SouthernTwink_ through. I've watched my mate with him a few times, so I know how some of our shared vocabulary will land, but i want to plant my own seeds in this adorable boy's mind, too. I've already made him wait for fucking much longer than I know he's used to, and the tone of his moans as i sink into him let me know that's paid off - the weight of his waiting now adds an emotion of heady relief to the sensation of being penetrated. Because i know he's used to my mate's thicker cock, I'm using his sphincter as a multi-angle fulcrum to make my cock move in spiral, pressing outward against the walls of his rectum on different trajectories. That intense, full feeling he gets from my mate's cock is only partly due to size - there's always a few particular places that create most of the sensation, and this method helps me find them. Once i have a good idea of my targets, my thrusts start to straighten out - still varying because those places are not on a straight line, but I'm giving him more repetitive sensations now so that they can compound in his mind. As I do this, I coo my own enjoyment into his ear. Recalling that this boy seems to crave being of service in this act, I ensure his confidence and start instilling a reflection of my own pleasure associated with the intense sensations he's receiving. That assurance is the prerequisite for the next stage of my agenda. I start with instructions framed to satisfy my own desire. Lift your hole up to me. Hold it up strong. Push back into my thrusts. Tilt to guide me to where you feel it most. Show me what you want. Take what you want. With each step towards active participation, I let him know this doesn't endanger his submissive role by adding my own tilt, my own shove, my own intensification to his movement. I'm still pushing slightly past what he would have taken for himself. All the while I praise him for being strong, for being honest in his desires, for being such a greedy slut! Watching a shy boy open up and let his inner animal out is the most beautiful part of my practice, and feeling that power awakening beneath me, pushing back so greedily around my cock, awakens something predatory in me too. This glorious beast is still my prey, and I'm even more hungry to conquer him when he's like this. I reach under to seize his cock, curling it under and cupping it tightly between his legs. His cock is my prisoner now, and his moans intensify as it strains in captivity and my thrusts become pointed directly into my cupped hand, driving blood into an organ that can't expand to accommodate it.