OH and HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!!
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i will say it loud and proud, do NYOT ever be ashamed of your sexuality. you are valid. my heart hurts for those who live in dangerously bigoted surroundings, but nyever let them convince you there's anyathing in you that needs to be "fixed". for loving who you love. or for having nyo romantic attraction. or for only having romantic attraction without any physical. or for being with the same gender then later being with anyother. or for nyot really factoring in gender in who you're attracted to. the list goes on. as long as you aren't hurting others nyon-consensually, it's ALL valid.
OH and of course, this sentiment extends to your gender identity. it is WELL established in anthropology, sociology, and all matter of the study of humans, that gender is a social construct. that doesn't remove its weight from our cultures. but it does mean that what we think of as our concrete selves, is actually performance. every single one of us performs our gender identity (among other personyal traits we see as fixed), fulfilling what we perceive to be ourselves within society. and that's perfectly valid and healthy. what's nyot healthy, is to bind yourselves and others to a strict definition for that which is nyot defined.
and idgaf if you disagree, except to hope in the heart of hearts that one day, you open your mind and realize your wrongs.
we are all human underneath.