convo with Mochi makes me realize there's a specific kind of person who's always going to be draining no matter what, an emotional time bomb who makes that everyone's problem, so you have to constantly walk on eggshells around them ๐ญ
my ex was like that too, and it took me so long to unlearn my overly people-pleasing behaviour cause I was trying to make sure they're in a good mood the whole time