Equipping Christian husbands to lead with strength and love, have an epic sex life, and become the greatest man their family has ever known.
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A thread on how I became the respected man that my wife joyfully follows, and how I increased frequency and freedom in my sex life (and how you can do the same) 👇
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"Hey babe, I need you to..." is not a submissive or respectful way for a wife to speak to her husband.
No matter how sweet the tone of voice, no matter how reasonable the particular command.
It's just another way that she leads, he follows, polarity is lost, and attraction lessens.
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John Michael Clark ⚓ retweeted
Your wife being godlier than you is not a reason for her to lead the marriage.
You're still the leader, whether you're a good one or a bad one 👇
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Sex twice a week is the emergency MINIMUM.
That would be 8 out of 28 days.
Sex is an important spiritual, emotional, and physical nutrient that you and your wife need.
If your frequency isn't at least twice a week, then something is wrong and you should work to fix it.
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"We don't want to be mastered by anything."
Here's how to be ruthless against sin and addiction. 👇
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Most of what a husband calls "serving my wife" is actually just obeying her fears.
She's anxious, so she says "We need to ______." And he obeys. He tells himself he's being a kind servant.
But he's not serving her with good leadership.
He's reacting to her worries and playing wack-a-mole.
The solution is gentleness that leads her THROUGH her fears and into the vision he has for the family.
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Why Does A Wife Say Yes To Sex, But Not Want You The Way She Used To? 👇
#marriage #marriagetips #christianmarriage
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A man who has a mighty vision for his marriage and family isn't distracted by Iran, Putin, or anything outside of his control.
He's building something great for God and will not be pulled away from it.
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"Hang out with 4 fit guys, you become the fifth fit guy."
You've got to end your isolation, and find brothers who will help you grow. 👇
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When you sin against your family, don't let time quietly carry it away.
Mark the moment. Go to them and say, "I was wrong, would you please forgive me?"
Notice that this is different from "sorry about earlier."
Real repentance.
It crucifies your pride and shows your kids there's a hero in this house, and His Name is Jesus.
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Marriages Don’t Lose Their Spark Overnight 👇
Want to lead your family with strength and love? Check out our free training, The Three Legs of Leadership: (Link in Bio)
#marriage #marriagetips #christianmarriage
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"Family captains love to please their wives. But family captains will never LIVE to please their wives."
There's a massive difference 👇
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Your wife being godlier than you is not a reason for her to lead the marriage.
You're still the leader, whether you're a good one or a bad one 👇
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But you're not unauthorized, nor do you get to vacate your authority just because you might happen to be more ignorant.
Lean on your advisors more: the Holy Spirit, other mentors, and yes, your first officer.
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