A reader sent me a long email yesterday explaining how offensive one of my articles was.
Not because of what I wrote.
Because of what I didn't write.
At first, I was mildly irked.
Then I reread it three times.
I came around to see her point.
Most of us have read something and thought, "But what about this?" or "You left out that important detail."
And yes, there are omissions that can be universally offensive. This was not one of them.
It’s true the reader wasn't entirely wrong.
Something was missing.
The thing is, something is always missing.
Every article, every book, every speech, every conversation is as much an omission as inclusion.
Writers start with a universe of possibilities and choose a few.
Everything else gets left out.
That's not a flaw.
That's writing in a nutshell.
If writers are responsible not only for what they say, but also for every perspective they don't mention, every exception they don't include, and every possibility they don't cover, the standard becomes unattainable.
The article becomes longer.
Then longer still.
Then longer again.
Eventually it stops being an article and becomes an endless series of qualifications designed to prevent someone, somewhere, from feeling overlooked.
Writing requires choices.
Choices create omissions.
Omissions can create disagreement.
That's not a flaw.
It's the price saying anything at all.