Ok, maybe the below one is too simplistic as Grok says. Therefore, I will add this. Successful relationship foundations are: 1. Mutual RESPECT and mutual INTEREST 2. Clear and OPEN line of COMMUNICATION that goes both ways 3. Shared GOALs (marriage) Are the 3 pillars of any successful relationship. Not just a romantic one at that. 4. For romantic relationships add SEX! I will address each one. That's me, solving all the dating problems.

Happy Birthday to DJT! 🎉🎊🎂🎁🎈 Not a perfect president by any means, but God saved his life, so I am grateful for him. 🙏✝️❤️

❤️ my soul is my Number One Asset. Number Two Asset: My body-given to me for free at birth, makes me money for as long as I live! These are true assets you have, love your true assets people, don't love money. Guard your soul by putting your hope in God! 👇

Anyone know how I can retrieve posts that I scheduled, but never got posted but disappeared?

For Throwback Thursdays, younger me & with one of my wildly unpopular posts from earlier days of me posting pure gold 👇👇

Big Libidos Matter Series, Tuesday Thoughts. I wrote a post about 10 root causes for married couples to have less sex than they would like. I am writing a post about each one. You can find them in my highlights. So far I have covered these root causes and what to do about them: #1. Sexual desire is framed as a "need" by the big libido spouse #5. Mismatched libidos #8. Unsatisfactory or disappointing sex Today I will cover #10. Digital distractions and lifestyle factors — Excessive phone/screen time, porn use, or prioritizing other activities over couple connection reduces quality time, emotional intimacy, and opportunities for sex. Here is a basic difference between men and women: -Women need "to feel loved" to want sex -Men need sex "to feel loved" Women are feelers, men. That’s in a nutshell. We just feel stuff. Lol We are highly attuned to our feelings. So believe me when I say: when you seem distracted by all the other things and not paying attention to her, she will feel it. I’m talking about you ogling the online hotties — she feels it. I’m talking about you watching peas corn — she undoubtedly feels it. You desiring someone else will be felt by her. For sure. You’ve been distracted and emotionally distant, but finally when you want to do it with her, what would she feel? She doesn’t feel loved. It actually feels like you just want to use her body, since she doesn’t feel the emotional connection. She feels that she isn’t truly desired by you. This is something you can do so easily: just remove all these distractions and pay attention to her. Attention is to women what peas corn is to men. And boom — she will feel loved, feel that you truly desire her, and feel connected… and she will respond kindly to your physical intimacy needs. 💯 Because emotional intimacy is the foundation that makes physical intimacy feel safe, desired, and deeply connecting — especially for us women. We really need to feel loved before we want sex. And only with the person who makes us feel this way. When a woman consistently feels emotionally connected and truly desired (not just sexually wanted), her libido will rise to meet her hubby’s. This way, you’re not just “fixing sex” — you’re building an unbreakable bond, a fortress, a deeper marriage. May you and your wife get deeply spiritually connected and have the best sex of your lives. 🙏🥰♥️ Next time, I will talk about actual techniques that you can start using. Trying to make these posts shorter but more useful, practical and actionable.

Big Money Monday Time! 💰 As a way to give you more breathing room so your love life can become a bigger priority, I decided to share my thoughts on Big Money Matters. I call it “big money” because the little things — like how much you spend on coffee or trying to save on it — don’t really move the needle on your overall financial health. I started this series because I work in this space professionally. Even though some people told me I shouldn’t compete with the other money gurus, I believe those gurus are usually focused on their own money problems, which is to make themselves rich, not on genuinely helping you. What I share is the bigger picture most people miss. My views on money are unconventional and designed solely to benefit you. I don’t gain anything personally from sharing this information. Generally, I feel like I’m giving you useful, actionable advice. But occasionally I still get criticism and unsupportive DMs. Lol, it’s okay — I can handle it. For now. Lately, I’ve felt the need to explain myself more than usual. Even though there are very few negative people, the things they say about me and about my intentions here affect me deeply. I’m a very reflective person. I believe in respecting others’ opinions, even (especially) when they’re about me, my actions, or my words. With that said, everything I do here is meant to support family values, marriage, love, and your spiritual well-being. I truly believe these things are under tremendous attack from dark forces all around us. So if I’ve managed to influence even a small number of people to think more positively about marriage, having kids, enjoying marital sex, or solving their big money problems — then my purpose here has already been fulfilled. That being said, I also need to protect my time, my energy, and my own mental health. This is my long-winded way of saying I won’t be able to follow everyone back anymore. Following back opens up DM access, and not everyone uses it kindly. I have to be more careful. I may not be perfect, but my intentions are good. I never mean to hurt anyone’s feelings. If I ever do, please just unfollow me, remove me as your follower and move on. Even though my circle of supporters is still very small (especially my dear besties), I love all of you so much. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being here and supporting me. I truly couldn’t do this without you. Next week, I’ll resume my student loans topic. It’s going to be a good one — I promise! Forever with gratitude and love, Yours Truly, XFriend 🙏♥️🥰

My hubby loves this post of mine! I shall put some like on it myself, on his behalf! 😂

Sexy Saturday Shenanigans time! Dear ladies (just 15% of my followers😅), How to appear sexy or desirable to men so they would approach you for the right reasons is the question, I would like to answer here. That is the purpose of Sexy Saturday posts. You may search for the previous posts with the same title here. Men are pretty predictable. They are visual, and prone to fall for visual cues more than anything. It is no secret that men like big bobs. Proven by my wildly successful poll from yesterday. Lol But why do they like big bobs is the question. Grok said it mainly signals Fertility and Reproductive Health. 1. Larger breasts can subconsciously signal good hormonal balance, adequate body fat reserves, and overall health/nutritional status—things that would have mattered a lot for successful pregnancy and breastfeeding in ancestral environments. 2. Studies link breast size to perceived youth and fertility cues. Women with bigger bobs are often rated as more attractive in all cultures because they indicate higher estrogen levels and better fat storage for lactation. So men are literally searching for cues of fertility and reproductive health, subconsciously. It literally means to appear attractive to men, you signal these fertility cues. How? - By making your bobs appear bigger. Lol But what if you don’t have big bobs tho? Tough luck? Not quite. Studies say the ultimate fertility cue is the Waist-to-Hip Ratio and/or overall shape of the woman’s body. A low waist-to-hip ratio aka "hourglass" shape is the strongest attractiveness cue because it honestly signals fertility and lower risk of pregnancy complications. Big bobs just enhance that feminine shape, creating contrast with the waist. Men’s brains are wired to notice these geometric cues almost instantly. So, if you’re not blessed with big bobs, you can still create the hourglass shape by: - Making your waist appear smaller - Making your hips appear bigger Or just wear really nice longer flowy dresses/skirts. 👇👇They make you look super feminine. Next, I am going to talk about how to appear receptive — oh so sexy! Lol

Hey mighty AI @grok what say you about my post? Is it "science"-y enough with my poll supporting what I am talking about in the post?

Happy FriYAY Funzies Time! Ok, inquiring minds want to know! The ladies need your honest answers — please participate! Would you rather date or be married to a lady:

I guess there is something wrong with the poll?