I raised 5 well adjusted productive kids and my living room looked a lot like this every year. Each kid got 1 or 2 big gifts and a bunch of things like socks, t shirts etc. I enjoyed wrapping and never felt I was doing anything wrong. Stop being so judgmental.
Listen...I try not to judge. I really do. I have had big Christmases before, but they include all my family. Not just my kids.
110 gifts to each kid is excessive to me. It's a coping mechanism for something you never had, as you explained in your video.
This isn't productive and may end up hurting your own kids in the long run. I suggest therapy.