Honestly, even as a Brit, Washington is one of the few, genuine, great men of history.
By surrenerding the sword, refusing kingship, and then retiring after his presidency, he arguably did more than anyone else to create the conditions for republicanism.
No. Washington earned the esteem and admiration of his countrymen first by winning the war and then by surrendering his sword rather than seize power after the improbable victory.
The American people followed him because they trusted him. It wasn’t rooted in his “personality,” but in his example and in his deeds.