If you find a good team, take care of them. Incentivize them, empower them, sacrifice self gain, for their gain. Show them you need them, appreciatie their effort and contributions.
"Don't reply fast", "don't show you care" , "don't be a homebody", "don't always be available". I'm grown. If I have to play these kinds of games for someone to be interested in me, then I'm no longer interested. I operate best when I can be my authentic self.