In relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. That’s the only way it works.
One of the most loving things you can do for yourself is to give yourself the credit you rightfully deserve. You’ve been given so many reasons to give up and to lose hope. To choose apathy over empathy. To harden yourself in a cold world. Yet here you are, still striving to Love yourself and others more fully. I hope you can grasp how extraordinary that is.
Hey @dricusduplessis,
You know this already but South Africa is behind you, next to you and screaming from the top of our lungs for you!
The fight is only on Sunday but I'll be wearing my green and gold tomorrow.
Proudly South African... and PROUD of South Africa! ❤️🇿🇦