Onye Kwe, Chi Ya Ekwe

Joined January 2017
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Omo!!!
Define growth in 2 pictures
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I’ll keep saying it, a lot of you need to decenter that Instagram lavish way of life, so you can start thinking like normal humans. You are a Nigerian , living in Nigeria, no special talent or skill , fuel is 1300 , rent is skyrocketing everywhere, minimum wage is less than 100k. Trust me you are closer to being homeless than driving that 2025 gle.
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How many reps is perfect for building muscle? Quick explanation πŸ“
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i want my siblings to be successful from my mouth to the ears of the fucking universe!
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The most shocking thing about modern relationships isn't infidelity. It's the strange contradiction happening inside many homes. We live in the most sexually open generation in history. People discuss sex publicly. They consume sexual content freely. Intimate photos are shared without much hesitation. Strangers touch bodies in salons, spas, tattoo studios, photoshoots, and countless other settings every day. Yet behind closed doors, many married couples are experiencing an intimacy drought. A husband can spend years providing, protecting, paying bills, carrying responsibilities, and remaining faithful, only to find himself constantly negotiating for affection from the one person who promised to share life with him. And that's where the real conversation begins. The issue is bigger than sex. Many people assume intimacy dies because of busy schedules, children, stress, or financial struggles. While those factors matter, they don't explain everything. The deeper problem is that many couples stop being lovers and become co-managers of problems. They discuss rent. They discuss school fees. They discuss family drama. They discuss responsibilities. But they stop discussing desire. They stop flirting. They stop dating each other. They stop creating moments that make intimacy natural instead of transactional. Over time, one partner begins to feel unwanted while the other feels pressured. The result is a silent resentment that grows year after year. What's even more alarming is that society often treats a lack of intimacy in marriage as a minor issue. Imagine a husband stopped talking to his wife for six months. Everyone would agree there is a serious problem. Imagine a wife stopped receiving financial support for six months. Everyone would agree there is a serious problem. But when physical affection disappears for months or years, people are often told to simply endure it. The truth is that intimacy is not a luxury in marriage. It's one of the languages through which many couples experience love, connection, reassurance, and emotional security. This is not about entitlement. Nobody owns another person's body. But neither should marriage become a place where one partner feels perpetually rejected, unseen, or emotionally starved. The solution isn't blame. It's honesty. Couples need to stop pretending the problem doesn't exist. They need difficult conversations without accusations. They need to understand each other's emotional needs. They need to rebuild friendship, attraction, trust, and emotional safety. Because in many marriages, the bedroom problem is actually a symptom. The real disease started long before the bedroom. The saddest part? Many marriages don't end in court. They end emotionally years before anyone files for divorce. And sometimes the first sign is when two people who once couldn't keep their hands off each other start living like polite roommates under the same roof. Maybe the question isn't why intimacy is disappearing. Maybe the real question is: How many marriages are quietly starving while everyone pretends they're well-fed?
In an age of unprecedented sexual openness, the widespread lack of intimacy between Couples especially married people It still baffles me how many women easily and freely grant intimate access to their bodies to photographers during shoots, to male tattoo artists and masseurs, to stylists and hairdressers, even to personal devices like dildos, plastics and other local dildos, and pets yet the man they chose as a life partner often finds himself reduced to pleading for the scraps of that same intimacy. Why? And how can this be resolved??
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E reach Bola’s turn, the bulk has shifted.
When it’s time to collect N50 billion security vote Governors are in charge of security. When a security incident happens it’s the federal government that is in charge and Governors are only Chief Security Officer on paper. The hypocrisy is too much. Governors are not stones!
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I don't understand. If you don't like sex that much, how do you intend to cheat? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Omo. You people ehn.
Part II: Married women on the TL - over to you. Please be honest. Do you ever feel regret ever getting married to your partner? How long? Are you happy? Is there any secret you think your partner might never know? Talk to me. I'm here for you. ngl.link/unkleayo32674
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The Top Six for the PFA Players’ Player of the Year πŸ† Voted for by the players.
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Reported total cost is 83 billion naira. Coastal highway is 15 trillion naira.
The best hospital in Central America. With every medical specialty, the most advanced technology in the world, and top-quality care. Public. Dignified. Free. For everyone.
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Immigrants are blamed for the lower quality of life across Europe. In the UK wages broke from the trend in 1997. The migration spike arrived 24 years later. This shows that immigration didn't cause this.
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There are currently 111,000 vacant posts in the adult social care sector. Why aren't young Brits filling up these roles? This isn't a short-term blip, either. The sector is projected to need an additional 470,000 posts by 2040. Now that they've closed off these care sponsorship roles, has it done anything else apart from even further worsen vacancies the sector.
Replying to @theashrb
Up until stsrmer took office they were giving out sponsorship visas for minimum wage care sector jobs
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You’re a big time liar. Post those β€œmany entry level grad roles” with that salary range in London. You’ve decided to lie through your teeth today
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Money wey Don Jazzy for use do giveaway
I can still remember when Jelly bum went to the beach to take semi naked yoga pictures and uploaded it as NFT and your fave bought it for thousands of dollars.
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Rebranding. Make I give pelumi my information, so she go sell am
πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘Nigerian couple, Frankie and Pelumi have created an app that interrupts doomscrolling.
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You do not need to change your accent to integrate. Speak clearly and pronounce your words the right way
They are not forming. it is called integration.
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Journalist: Sir what's your take On the issue of insecurity? Tinubu: That is the love, obedience of law. Nowhere in the holy teaching that you should engage in banditry, nowhere that you should kill another human being. The sacrifice we're talking about, if in the beginning of life where we take this from. A child was replaced with animal and that is what is value of life is all about. See who ronu crack heads call intelligent, always talking off point.
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Too loud and wrong.
Your weight gain will be massive.
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Used night bus from Sunderland to London (6hrs journey) for two different NHS interviews. I was still at Victoria coach station in London, ready to go back to Sunderland when I received the two rejections. The water I was drinking tasted like Alomo bitters
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I went for one NHS management accounting interview at Warrington, I travelled 5 hours to and fro. I was only asked 6 questions which I answered very well because I was familiar with the questions. When I was leaving one of the interviewer followed to the door and told me see you soon. I was happy in my mind I thought I had gotten the job only to receive feedback that I did very well but the u have a strong candidate….I was really pained. That was the last time I ever travelled for any interview
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The day I had a mindset switch while watching Peter Obi was when Mbaka wanted to embarrass him into making a donation. Peter Obi, despite how awkward the entire thing was getting; insisted that he doesn’t give money unless he is given a breakdown of the project the money will be spent on. Rather than getting dragged, he left that conversation as the bigger person. It taught me that when you stand on strong principles and your belief - you get more appealing, appeal does not come from trying to be diplomatic - it comes from absolute fanaticism around your own principles. Watch this video and maybe you will have the same mindset shift as I did years ago:
If you’re not coming to share ideas with me, please stay in your house.
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The fact that we have to convince people to not vote tinubu is very sickening. How dumb can someone be?
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Bruno the record breaker πŸ‡΅πŸ‡ΉπŸ”₯
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