One bro once narrated to me how his parents enforced them all to participate in any sport codes they preferred. Whether they liked it or not, they have to. Today, that bro is one of the disciplined nigga I know, even though he is not good at any sport, he has a good career.
Bro, I won't hire someone to come clean the house or wash clothes while there are teenagers in my house. My kids will have to be taught how to be responsible, take care of themselves, self awareness, and discipline man. No ehena apa tulye nghelo ka.