OK Alfie
Please post this:
Christmas isnβt a great time for everyone.
For a lot of us it will be an opportunity for a break from work and a time to catch up with Mates and Family that we havenβt seen for a while.
This may bring challenges for some people though,who have conflict with loved ones,financial worries or ongoing mental health needs.
For those who have lost loved ones it can be especially hard.
Thatβs why itβs important that at this time of year particularly when the expectation forced upon us is to be βhappy and joyfulβ that you look after yourself.
Think about the effect drink has on you and if it makes you feel bad try and limit your intake.And if you have a hangover and feel rotten emotionally remember that it is the drink making you feel worse and it will pass.
If you have conflict with relationships try hard to stay as calm as possible and extract yourself from situations in which you may be compromised.And try and avoid drama of any kind.
If you are feeling lonely be careful with social media.Whilst SM is great in order to help you feel connected to others it can also have the effect of exacerbating the isolation and loneliness you feel - especially if you have recently broken up with
someone.So try and stay away from it as much as possible.
If you know people who are struggling keep an eye on them.Send them an occasional text and check they are OK.
If you are struggling the following offer 24/7,free and confidential listening services.
Most of the time all people really need when they feel stressed or pissed off is a chat,a listening
ear.So use these
services.No one will ever know you have spoken to them.
Text Shout - 85258
Call Samaritans - 116123
There is also the Combat Stress helpline at which people will be on the end of a phone to chat to you if things are getting too much:
Call - 0800 324 4444
No matter where you are,what you are doing,or how you are feeling,be safe β¦