You need to understand these people aren't merely insane, they're stupid. And they all believe this very thing.
They can look at a graph which clearly shows women hate men more than women, and claim it is evidence men hate women.
Then, they will take the definition of the word for hating women, and claim that hatred of women isn't even a requirement.
They'll accuse you of hating women using said word, even if you, for example, only think women are shorter than men on average.
So again, even though overwhelmingly their own information makes it abundantly clear that it's women who utterly despise men (and it's not even close) they will state that this is merely because men hate women.
Now you'll look at the graph, head tilted, trying to clock where you must be misunderstanding. Where *you* got it wrong. They, on the other hand, could read this entire passage and it will never occur to them, not even once, that they're insane.
That's what we're up against. That's who you're trying to reason with.