A lot has changed in 2.5 years.
These days I have a barre membership I use ~3x/week. I run, play guitar, read, watch my favorite TV shows, go to concerts, parent, & work full-time.
It took until my youngest was almost 3, and the balance can be wonky, but I did it. I'm happy.
Embarrassing confession: I do not know what I like to do. I have two kids under 3.5 and much of my free time is spent in service of our household or doing the bare minimum for myself, so I do not have any hobbies.
Except, now I need one. Or several.