Companies bring me in when they're coasting. I teach them to compete when the scoreboard goes quiet. | Keynote Speaker | CSP® | 4x Author | @CompeteEveryDay

Joined July 2009
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The version of you that used to push is still in there. He's just been outvoted by comfort for a while. Today's a good day to give him the floor again. #CompeteEveryDay
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You don't have the same 24 hours as Beyoncé, no matter what quote you screenshotted. She has teams and resources you don't. What you have are the 15-minute pockets you keep wasting. One beats none. Every day. Beat Yesterday: buff.ly/lqgLBSw
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"I'll start when I'm ready." This is the sentence I've heard more than any other from people who never start. Ready to ask for the promotion. Ready to apply for the role. Ready to launch the thing. Ready to have the conversation. Ready to start training. Ready to record the first video. Ready never comes. Ready is a feeling, and feelings show up after you start moving, not before. Comedians don't feel ready before their first open mic — they feel terrified. They go anyway. Sara Blakely didn't feel ready selling door-to-door before she built Spanx. She went anyway. The people who eventually become "ready" are just the ones who started while they were still scared. The thing you're waiting to feel before you start is the thing you'll only feel because you started. Stop waiting. Start crappy. Iterate. The first version of anything you do is supposed to be bad. That's how the second version gets better. The job isn't to be ready. The job is to begin.
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"I was listening to Jerry Seinfeld talk about bombing on stage. Decades into his career, after Netflix specials and sold-out arenas, he still bombs. Routinely. And he loves it. Not because he enjoys failing. Because every bomb is data. The joke didn't land. The timing was off. The delivery hit too hard. He goes back, rewrites the line, and tries it ten more ways until one of them crushes. Here's what he doesn't do 👉 he doesn't say "I bombed." He says "that joke bombed." Four letters. One word. Different universe. When you say "I failed," you're telling yourself failure is who you are. Your identity takes the hit. So next time, you protect it - by not trying, by half-committing, by waiting until you're 100% ready (which is never). When you say "that didn't work," failure is something that happened to a thing you tried. You're still intact. The pitch didn't land. The interview didn't go your way. The workout was off. None of that is you. The people who recover fastest from failure aren't the ones who fail less. They're the ones who never let the failure become their identity in the first place. Your career is a science experiment, not a final exam. What's a recent "I failed" you can rewrite as "that didn't work"? Grab the pen and rewrite it.
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The hardest part of becoming a manager isn't managing. It's giving feedback to the person you used to grab a beer with. I've watched this break good leaders. Someone gets promoted. They're now leading the team they were on six months ago. And the second they have to hold their old peer accountable for missing a deadline, they freeze. What if they don't like me anymore? What if I'm being a hypocrite? What if they think I'm on a power trip? So they say nothing. They drop hints instead of having the conversation. They send the passive-aggressive Slack message at 4:47 on a Friday. They reorganize the work so they don't have to deal with the underperformance. They become the manager their team can't trust — because their team can sense the avoidance. What many new managers don't understand is 👉 the relationship was never the problem. The promotion was. The role you took requires you to do a thing your friendship doesn't require. That's the deal. You took the title; you took the responsibility that comes with it. The kindest thing you can do for your former peer is treat them like the professional they are - not the friend you wish they still felt like. Hard conversations don't end relationships. Withheld ones do.
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The most expensive question you'll ever ask: 'What will they think?'
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Playing it safe doesn't silence the critics. It just removes any reason to keep watching.
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The one-degree difference between water and ice is the same difference between good and great. Small. Consistent. Everything.
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Every rep. Even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. That's where character is actually built.
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The Line goes deep on the one-degree difference and what it costs you when you don't close the gap. buff.ly/VC2SWF2
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Your team doesn't need a perfect leader. They need to know which version of you is walking through the door.
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Complexity is the enemy of execution. The simpler the standard, the more likely you'll actually keep it.
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For years, I compared my Day 1 to everyone else's Day 1,000. Exhausting, and a game you can't win. The day I started competing with yesterday instead, everything got lighter. That shift is the book: buff.ly/lqgLBSw
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The question I get asked most on stage: "How do we keep our best people from coasting after a big win?" The answer is always the same 👉️ raise the standard before they need to. #CompeteEveryDay
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