#soft_reminder, keep looking toward the world you want to create for yourself, and keep choosing the things that bring you peace. life feels a lot softer when your energy is spent growing flowers in your own garden instead of watching someone else’s bloom ❤︎
just a gentle reminder: don’t keep people around as an option while you figure out what you want. no one deserves to be a backup plan or a second choice. if you care about someone, be honest with them and don’t waste their time. :_) everyone deserves to be chosen wholeheartedly.