how do i explain this, when someone goes through an accident or an illness and says “live your life”, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re doing badly now, often, it’s because they’ve learned how quickly life can change, you can be completely fine one day and face something unexpected the next
the fact that she still goes to the hospital could simply mean routine checkups, if she says she’s okay and asks people not to worry, i think they should listen to her, sometimes it’s even more frustrating to see people constantly worried about you and talking about your health when you just want to move on and enjoy life
trust her, i’m not saying don’t worry about her, just don’t analyze everything she says or does based on her health